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waiting till marriage to have sex is just honestly one of the stupidest thing ever to me. i just will never understand it
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Anonymous 5d

ChillšŸ˜‚I’m not a virgin but damn let them wait tf

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Anonymous 5d

PSA: if you are religious, please sit this one out! if you’re not, i’m happy to discuss

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

nothing’s wrong with waiting, but to specifically wait for marriage is stupid.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

why?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

because sexual compatibility is important in a romantic relationship. if it turns out that the partner that you married cannot satisfy you sexually (and this goes for both genders), you will not be happy in that relationship/marriage

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

there’s more to relationships than just sex. also if you both waited, how would yall know what’s good and what’s bad? God wouldn’t put that person in your life to marry if you guys weren’t compatible in all aspects

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

it’s on you to choose how you live but don’t shame others for how they choose to as well

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

completely agreed that it’s more to relationships than just sex, but that should be given. the topic right now IS sex, so that’s what i’m going to talk about. it’s a plethora of reasons on why a marriage/relationship won’t work, but that isn’t the discussion. now, to add, there has been multiple studies of how marriages would lead to divorce and infidelity due to them not having a ā€œhappyā€ sex life. waiting till marriage will amplify that to being a cause

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

i didn’t shame anyone, i simply just said it’s stupid. however, i see that you mentioned God, meaning that you’re religious, so i think we should just end the conversation right here.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

sounds good šŸ‘

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Yeah tbh, an atheist is likely never going to align with a religious person on this because the whole way of living is different. You won’t see our reasons for doing so, and we won’t agree with yours. Better to just agree to disagree šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

so true! it’s not worth arguing haha

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

yeah exactly, that’s why i said what i said. it’s disrespect to them, i just understand that a non-religious person and a religious person having a conversation about a controversial topic will just never work. so in that case, i just agree to disagree!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

*no disrespect

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

ā€œnot worth arguingā€. ah religious people. you guys are all the same

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

no need to be rude man, just said it’s not something to have an argument about. that’s why i’m not trying to debate. u believe what you believe in, and i’ll do the same

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

correct.

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