Confessions on Sidechat | I cant tell any of my friends about my crazy rich grandma because they just think im incredibly bratty when i complain 😔 she's genuinely insane i just want a normal grandma

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I cant tell any of my friends about my crazy rich grandma because they just think im incredibly bratty when i complain 😔 she's genuinely insane i just want a normal grandma

Anonymous 4w

Man this is how it was with friends I’ve cut off and complaining about my dad. My parents are very wealthy and I grew up with everything I needed, except my dad has always been financially, emotionally, and sometimes physically abusive. I’d get called ungrateful for wishing away wealth in exchange for emotional stability :/

Anonymous

#1 4w

Just know your complaints are valid OP. This is what they mean when they say money can’t buy happiness.

Anonymous

#1 4w

Yes exactly thank you. I dont want expensive jewlery when it has no emotional connection to it. I just want a grandmother who wants to spend time with me and cares about my life

Anonymous

OP 4w

Right! And idk about you, but my dad always uses money and things as a bargaining chip. He bought me a brand new car as a “gift”, then threatened to make me pay for it when I wanted to take a gap year between undergrad and law school. I love the car but I’d rather not live with that anxiety and do what I feel is best for me instead

Anonymous

#1 4w

Mine doesnt do that to the same degree but she makes you feel like you owe her and you always have to act perfect or she will take it back. I dont even want the stuff i just take it to make her happy

Anonymous

OP 4w

Ugh yeah I get that 100%. It’s so frustrating. There are so many ways to give gifts to people without placing any expectations of returning that favor on them