Anonymous #1 12h

not really? idk i don’t even like a guy until i know him and i know we get along and i enjoy talking to him. which is why it’s so confusing bc i wouldn’t sleep with someone if i didn’t like them but no matter what after i just feel gross

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Anonymous #2 12h

maybe? idk though i really don’t view sex as being dirty in any other way. but ig it’s different when you’re the one actually having sex vs just the concept of it

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Anonymous OP 12h

is it because of something they do after? like is there no aftercare or anything? or maybe it’s the fact there’s no relationship to fall back onto? like at the end of the day after they can just leave and then it’s just you and maybe that thought in your brain freaks you out

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Anonymous #1 12h

these weren’t hookups i was in relationships with them 😭 and engines everything has been fine like i finished and they weren’t weird after or anything. for some reason i just feel gross after even if they were really nice

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Anonymous OP 12h

Do you come from a religious background at all?

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Anonymous #2 12h

not even a little lol

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Anonymous OP 12h

Hmm yeah then I’m honestly not sure where it comes from maybe something to unpack as u go

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Anonymous #2 12h

i appreciate the help!! and yeah this is def something i have to sit with i think

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Anonymous OP 12h

I wish I could’ve been a little more help! But regardless I hope you figure something out that helps you feel more at peace with your feelings in the end! 🫶

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Anonymous OP 10h

I wonder if it’s because of the type of sex you have, in just trying to think of anything here

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