i have yet to sleep with a guy and still like him after idk what’s wrong with me. i can be so into him and then we have sex and even if it’s good i just feel so gross and wrong after i have to stop talking to him 😭
not really? idk i don’t even like a guy until i know him and i know we get along and i enjoy talking to him. which is why it’s so confusing bc i wouldn’t sleep with someone if i didn’t like them but no matter what after i just feel gross
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Anonymous8w
maybe? idk though i really don’t view sex as being dirty in any other way. but ig it’s different when you’re the one actually having sex vs just the concept of it
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AnonymousOP8w
is it because of something they do after? like is there no aftercare or anything? or maybe it’s the fact there’s no relationship to fall back onto? like at the end of the day after they can just leave and then it’s just you and maybe that thought in your brain freaks you out
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Anonymous#18w
these weren’t hookups i was in relationships with them 😭 and engines everything has been fine like i finished and they weren’t weird after or anything. for some reason i just feel gross after even if they were really nice
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Anonymous8w
not even a little lol
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Anonymous8w
i appreciate the help!! and yeah this is def something i have to sit with i think
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AnonymousOP8w
I wonder if it’s because of the type of sex you have, in just trying to think of anything here