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We want to be treated with respect without you expecting anything in return from us!
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Anonymous 20h

Ok I can do that I think

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Anonymous 18h

I’m not trying to be argumentative here, but in theory if a guy treats a girl with respect it would only make sense to expect respect in return?

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Anonymous 20h

That’s separate from what he said

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Anonymous 18h

I already expect women to not do anything nice for me so I’m just nice to them out of principle. Women typically don’t reciprocate when someone does something for them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

the problem is that men take any kindness from women as flirtation, and then they get mad when you turn them down. it’s safer to just not do anything at all tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17h

I totally agree with that don’t get me wrong, I’ve seen it from both sides. But if you see it from a guy’s pov it’s a little difficult to justify that you aren’t treated with respect if you treat someone else with respect.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17h

I had an issue with this at work and the woman came to me to talk about it. We’re friends now and I got that guy fired for basically stalking her. She didn’t want anyone to say anything but I didn’t want her to get seriously hurt.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

treating someone with the respect is the bare minimum. you shouldn’t expect anything in return for doing it, it’s literally just treating people with decency

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

the literal generalization that dude was making about women is disrespectful how is that separate

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

lmao we do when it’s not coming from a man who expects us to not reciprocate?? You clearly have something against women bc if any human is kind to me I am kind to them back

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

hey, i think i get what you mean, & its exactly what the post says & what we want. a man who is kind out of principal will find someone who reciprocates that kindness and likes them. & we appreciate all the men out there who are kind without wanting anythjng in return. so idk, keep it up?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16h

So we agree then?? I’m saying if someone is treating someone else with respect the other person should also be respectful, you’re saying it’s the bare minimum as in everyone should be respectful. You’re losing me here on where our difference is. Unless you mean women deserve respect and men don’t. Which I don’t think that’s what you mean

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 16h

I have nothing against women I’m just tired of being treated like a doormat. Eventually it kinda gets to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 16h

Will do 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13h

yeah obviously everton should be treated with respect lol, it’s just when you’re a woman and you treat men with genuinely bare minimum courtesy, he thinks it’s flirting. so unfortunately like i already said it’s a lot easier to just not interact with men or treat them coldly

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12h

I can’t see it anymore but I don’t agree with you at all and I find you exhausting

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

Plus you can probably answer that yourself if you actually tried to critically read or see any other perspective. You all on here always just want to complain and argue and be mad about dumb bullshit it’s so gross and exhausting and boring

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