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If you’re picking up a girl for a hangout in your car DO NOT TOUCH HER WITHOUT CONSENT. Theres a high chance she doesn’t like it but is scared bc she is in your car & doesn’t know what you’d do so just don’t especially 1st hangout! STOP TOUCHING
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Anonymous 10w

and i’m not sure why ppl have smth to say against this. it says “without consent.” that literally just means asking before to make sure it’s okay 😭 and also if you disagree w this consider the fact it’s a “hangout” and not an established date

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Anonymous 10w

Nah first encounter that’s hug at most unless she makes a move first (which is always more satisfying)

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Anonymous 10w

To my fellow men, ALWAYS MAKE SURE SHE CONSENTS TO *EVERY* ACTION INVOLVING TOUCH. Firstly, it’s just kind. Secondly, the legal system has been and will likely always be rigged in women’s favor on every issue regarding consent, even if it genuinely wasn’t your fault. Be safe and be kind!!

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Anonymous 10w

I hate how we call things hangouts. is it a hookup? a date? if he says hangout i always think he only wants sex and it’s just. ugh.

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Anonymous 10w

Lwk always ask before doing something it’s just common sense, been on multiple dates where I’ve asked to hold hands etc just to make the other party comfortable

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Anonymous 10w

Also don’t accept a car date

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Anonymous 10w

Ima pick her nose

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Anonymous 10w

Ughhh men are soy gross. They remind me of Kevin spacey in that one movie

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Anonymous 10w

I mean yeah if it’s the first time I’m meeting her but normally I’ll go out for a hug, especially if it’s an online friend I haven’t seen in-person before

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Anonymous 10w

Like no hugging or thigh touching?

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Anonymous 10w

stfu!

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Anonymous 10w

maybe bring urself to the date then

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 10w

wait this is about dating? 💀 why is it a hangout and not a date 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

the solution to not being touched without consent is to meet them there? maybe they shouldn’t be touched without consent, wild idea ik

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 10w

she’s specifically worried about the car. so yea bring urself if you don’t trust them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 10w

as a girl btw. don’t be a damn bird.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

I think the parts that she has in all caps is what she’s most worried about tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

okay bird

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 10w

do you have evidence for the second part /gen. because from what I’ve seen it’s more of a “believe the victim” deal regardless of gender

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 10w

A 2026 academic review found that 759 known SA cases from the previous decade were wrongful accusation and conviction. It’s obviously a smaller demographic of cases, but it exists, and that’s what we men need to be aware of. Better to be safe with every action and be slightly annoying for the number of times you ask for permission than just straight up 14 years or more behind bars

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 10w

All that aside, the bigger thing is to just be kind to her and considerate of her comfort in situations involving physical contact.

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