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i don’t know why guys think “simping” is such a negative thing when it’s just showing attention / affection to a woman they are attracted to. it’s flattering and cute, so don’t be ashamed for it!
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Anonymous 2d

In my perspective, a “simp” is a desperate guy doing anything for a girl knowing well it probably won’t go anywhere

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Anonymous 1d

it’s like how “white knighting” used to mean “doing too much to performatively ‘defend’ a woman who’s perfectly capable of standing up for her own self, in hopes that she’ll suck your dick or w/e” but then guys started overwhelmingly just using that term to insult other men who made any attempts to criticize misogyny, to the point that it lost all meaning

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Anonymous 2d

Simping is the worst thing you can do. Fellas never put a woman on a pedestal.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Guys’ friends tend to exaggerate any kindness shown to a woman as this. Like it’s fun to razz them about simping if the friends are a bit jealous

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

guys think being nice to women is desperate bffr

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

honestly, you can either mean this as "don't respect women" or "don't obsess over women and idolize them", and one of those are correct, but it's so hard to tell in online spaces about men/women relationships

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