
I’m sorry girlie. You deserve to be loved and to feel good about yourself. There is nothing wrong with how you look, beauty is entirely subjective and a lot of people find you attractive, it’s just that too many people are afraid of not going with the norm bc society sucks and people are cowards. What matters most though is how you see yourself, tell yourself you’re beautiful bc you are. Just keep repeating it until it sticks in your head.
I did that and eventually I didn’t feel like I was lying when I said it. Now I feel pretty, and I have the confidence of someone pretty and that’s what I’ve noticed is most attractive to people. Believe in yourself and love yourself and others will do the same. You are beautiful, you are strong, you are amazing, you are loved. Go dress up, go to parties, have fun and live life to the fullest bc you deserve to.
It took me a few years of this tbh, but I’m so glad i kept pushing myself. I was really depressed and self conscious for a lot of my life, and one day someone told me to just gaslight myself. So I did, and now I really am happy. It helps to find something you enjoy, have fun with it and start growing your confidence from there. I started baking, and I got good at it which helped me feel more confident in my ability to do other things. It made me believe in myself and that spread to my looks too
Like if I can do these things I felt I couldn’t do for so long, maybe I’m not bad at everything, and maybe I’m not ugly. And as I got more and more confident doing things, I got more confident in my looks as well. I still don’t fit society’s ideal beauty standards for women, but it doesn’t matter, I’m beautiful anyways and once I saw myself like that, others did too. You got this, stick with it cause you are beautiful, you just don’t see it yet
I’m sexist now I guess? Just posted a comment here last night trying to show OP that people relate to feeling unwanted and uncared for and woke up with a ton of downvotes and you jumping down my throat like I’m the bad guy here. Still not really sure what I said wrong, my comment was written with the same sentiment as #1, but don’t really care to hear your explanation either. When people are miserable they look to fight about everything I guess.🖕