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Being an unattractive girl has to be the one of the worst experiences. Most men don’t respect me, women too. I don’t feel like I deserve love, deserve to dress up, or go to parties or have fun in general. And it’s taken a mental toll on me since 4 grade
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Anonymous 3w

Aww. I feel this as an average guy. It’s ridiculously hard

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Anonymous 3w

Yess girl I get u

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Anonymous 3w

I’m sorry girlie. You deserve to be loved and to feel good about yourself. There is nothing wrong with how you look, beauty is entirely subjective and a lot of people find you attractive, it’s just that too many people are afraid of not going with the norm bc society sucks and people are cowards. What matters most though is how you see yourself, tell yourself you’re beautiful bc you are. Just keep repeating it until it sticks in your head.

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Anonymous 3w

so? go out and do ya thing. I thought I was chuzz till I came to college u just needa find ur people

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Anonymous 3w

#9 🪢

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Anonymous 3w

I get u, girl

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Anonymous 3w

Agreed. Ts is the fucking worst😭

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Anonymous 3w

Everyone deserves love and it will find you don’t trip

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Anonymous 3w

STAWWWWP #6 SEXIST GUY DELETED HIS COMMENT AGAIN BOOM SHAKALA YES LAWD

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Anonymous 3w

Hello

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 3w

I did that and eventually I didn’t feel like I was lying when I said it. Now I feel pretty, and I have the confidence of someone pretty and that’s what I’ve noticed is most attractive to people. Believe in yourself and love yourself and others will do the same. You are beautiful, you are strong, you are amazing, you are loved. Go dress up, go to parties, have fun and live life to the fullest bc you deserve to.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 3w

I was actually gonna say, I've tried that and it just felt like lies every time and it made me feel worse so I just stopped. Maybe I'll get back to doing it. Thank you for that btw, I'll just have to see how it works out lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

It took me a few years of this tbh, but I’m so glad i kept pushing myself. I was really depressed and self conscious for a lot of my life, and one day someone told me to just gaslight myself. So I did, and now I really am happy. It helps to find something you enjoy, have fun with it and start growing your confidence from there. I started baking, and I got good at it which helped me feel more confident in my ability to do other things. It made me believe in myself and that spread to my looks too

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

Like if I can do these things I felt I couldn’t do for so long, maybe I’m not bad at everything, and maybe I’m not ugly. And as I got more and more confident doing things, I got more confident in my looks as well. I still don’t fit society’s ideal beauty standards for women, but it doesn’t matter, I’m beautiful anyways and once I saw myself like that, others did too. You got this, stick with it cause you are beautiful, you just don’t see it yet

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 3w

Thank you so much for this. You are also beautiful and amazing and I’m glad you know that

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 3w

Thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

If this is a woman, hello

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Thank you ☺️🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3w

Again? What was the second one?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

The second one was “Not readin allat.”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

i honestly to god don’t remember but it was like JUST deleted

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Oh ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

what does this even mean

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3w

I’m sexist now I guess? Just posted a comment here last night trying to show OP that people relate to feeling unwanted and uncared for and woke up with a ton of downvotes and you jumping down my throat like I’m the bad guy here. Still not really sure what I said wrong, my comment was written with the same sentiment as #1, but don’t really care to hear your explanation either. When people are miserable they look to fight about everything I guess.🖕

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

lol i was literally putting any word on here to get comment notifications cuz this is a good and juicy post

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

if you bothered to read then you would know. either solve your incompetence or live in it, but don’t weaponize it. and clearly you’re miserable because women aren’t flocking to suck your dick like you think they do for every “non average” guy

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2w

Not miserable enough to necro a week old thread you fucking weirdo

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2w

lil bro blocked me LMAOOO

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