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Confessions 23h
Is it “weird” that my primary workout partner is a woman? My gf said it’s weird.
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Anonymous 21h

I would cry if I were the gf, but to each their own.

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Anonymous 23h

Nope not weird to have female friends!

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Anonymous 21h

i would beat my man’s ass but if yall are happy

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Anonymous 23h

Eh its not that weird Especially if you and gym girl were friends before But its totally understandable why anyone would be put off by their gf/bf gyming with someone of the opposite sex

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Anonymous 20h

Does ur gf not workout w u??

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Anonymous 18h

imo it shouldn’t matter, we should all be able to trust our partners, HOWEVER u should support ur gf in whatever insecurity she might be dealing with, which is usually what jealousy comes from. i’m a bi woman, so applying this kind of line of reasoning to my life would make me very lonely, so i wouldn’t expect a partner to adhere to it, and i think it’s good to have friends of different genders. i also got to this mindset by becoming very secure in myself, which is very hard but so worth it!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

I mean I did meet her at the gym so that might be what weirds her out? Idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

Shit man idk Would you be cool with her primary gym partner being a guy? I think friendship can exist between genders and my ex was friends with girls i didn’t talk to, but I also knew of them and paired with trust I was never worried. But if she doesn’t know this girl, she can be weirded out, because how did you two start talking? Do you go up to her? Did she come up to you? What are the chances she likes you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

Some girls are also spawns of satan bro😭 Like they intentionally go after guys in relationships and just jump around like that Obviously its always the bf/husband’s fault, but the girl involved is weird to

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

If they had no romantic interest in each other idk. I’m not into my friend. She came up to me and asked for help with something and that’s how we met. I don’t think she’s into me at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

But thats the thing, you wouldn’t know, just like how she doesn’t know right now Look bro if she’s only “weirded out” and nothing more than by all means continue Just make sure that you have boundaries and constantly remind her of your gf

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

Why would you cry 😭

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Anonymous 21h

I didn’t know her before my girl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Oh nah.

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Anonymous 21h

Thats what Im saying brooo Like he could have just helped her and moved on

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

She’s nice and we watch the same anime tho, its just a good opportunity to make a new friend at the gym

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Because that would just make uncomfy, it doesn’t mean you’re not loyal and you’re allowed to have what friends you want, it’s just not something I’d be happy knowing🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Whatever bro You do you

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 20h

She HATES working out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 15h

I asked her if she wanted me to stop going to the gym with her and she said she wasn’t going to make me do anything so idk why she’s still pissed about it if she doesn’t want me to stop

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

okay so that’s not what i mean by “support ur gf”. talk to her abt why she thinks it’s weird, make sure she knows that u love her and find her attractive etc etc, figure out what’s causing those feelings for her.

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