
Yes!! Some guys really care about appearance, some girls really care about appearance, some guys are non-monogamists who choose monogamy, some girls are non-monogamists who choose monogamy, etc I want to bash my head in when I see guys talking about 'Men are biologically wired to never be satisfied with just one woman we always need more' like no, you as an individual are non-monogamist. Don't put that on everyone and stop using science words to prop up the random bs floating around in your head