
i dont even believe in god. this isnt coming from a “he should respect you more wait till marriage dont send nudes” mindset… but like he didnt have more words to say? he couldnt hype you up? show you how it made him feel? but whatever floats your boat just dont make this something it isnt
exactly like he gets nudes from a bunch of random girls and all he said to urs was “holy” and ur excited over that … sad and low self esteem . it’s one thing to “have fun” and send nudes but it’s another to come brag about it on a public forum where ppl are allowed to share their opinion and then being mad when ppl share their opinion 💀
an emoji is a terrible response and if ur just like her why even try to argue 💀 idk why u mentioned “peaking in high school” when that has literally nothing to do with having self esteem and valuing ur body higher than a one word meaningless reply. it’s not ab the reply it’s about the fact that postin “i feel successful” because of that is so low value and shows how her value depends on men. i encourage u and her to look in the mirror until u love urself and dont need a man to make u feel that
I mentioned peaking in high school because yall were acting like a bunch of mean girls coming at her about something that wasn’t even that big of a deal. But ig it’s in the same manner in which you brought up her having a normal conversation about her interests, after someone asked what she wanted for her birthday, as if it were some ploy😗 I never said I didn’t value my body?? I’ve actually learned to love it more with the help of how he loves me as I am😗
most of the time we’re already on the phone when I send them so yah the emojis are enough for a text reply. He already writes me love poems and I don’t need one about my body to know how valued I am by him🤷🏾♀️ We need to get rid of the narrative of you always needing to love yourself before you love someone else because you don’t have to go through that alone🤷🏾♀️
we are all so beautiful and gorgeous and a light in our own ways i just want more women to spend more time focusing on that and realizing that then focusing on how a man makes her feel like i love myself so much i stare at myself in the mirror for hours and pictures of myself for hours if i sent a nude to a man and all he said was a one word reply i’m not even going to bother w that cus what i say to myself is so much more fulfilling than that like yk what i mean
If you want to to be encouraging you have to come with encouraging energy and none of y’all’s responses had that in there. Degrading someone or making them feel backed into a corner just to prove a point is not being a girls girl. It’s just being mean and trying to cover your ass in my opinion🥱 I love that you love looking at yourself for hours, truly. I come a cross pics of myself where I’m like “you ate that💅🏾” and admire it a little, but I don’t have that desire to stare at them for hours…
…nor do I care and you can’t expect everyone too. Not everyone is at where you’re at and that’s okay because it works for them and if it doesn’t they’ll just continue to grow until they find what does. We don’t get to dictate if someone loves themselves or not because we don’t know them or what that even looks like for them. Just like more could’ve been said at a different time but she didn’t share that information because it’s not our business 🫶🏾