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i feel like im on dating apps trying to fool myself into thinking i’ll find the one but i think im more meant for a slowburn type relationship idk apps nowadays seem so transactional maybe it’s just me
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Anonymous 1w

Dating right now feels transactional. And unfortunately mostly from one side

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Anonymous 1w

Also, I found the one on an app, so it is possible. Just give it some time. I was on every app for a long time, & felt like I wasn’t having any success. So I had planned to delete the apps at the end of the month. And then lo and behold we got paired together that very week. We took our time getting to know each other (mostly because of distance, we got matched while I was on a trip in California, and couldn’t meet up before I returned home)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Met someone the old fashioned way a while ago and now I can’t go back I think

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I’m not attractive or confident enough to do that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Don’t doubt yourself twin im sure you’re not giving yourself enough credit

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I’m a 4 at best haha I’m realistic

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Even if that is true self love is the best love twin !!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

When you get rejected constantly it’s hard haha

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Feel you :( same here

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

It’s worse as a guy tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Woman here 🙋🏻‍♀️ if either of you’d like, send me a dm & I’ll give you some pointers on how to appeal more to women whether in person or online. But one I will say is you could be a soliddd 4, but if you present yourself well, and have CONFIDENCE and self-love, that alone could boost you to a 6 or higher. I know it’s cheesy, but the saying fake it till you make it is actually very real if you apply it well.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

That’s so sweet! Hopefully this finds me as well 🙏🏽

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I’m a woman but thank you :)

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