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What’s the soonest to kick someone out of your place after a hookup? I want them gone and on their way fairly quick once we’re done
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Anonymous 23h

As soon as whatever aftercare is required is finished

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Anonymous 1d

Guy or girl?

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Anonymous 22h

Dawg hire a stripper if you want them gone that fast. I get you just want sex, but girls want the full experience with aftercare. It’d be selfish to only take what you want without giving them anything.

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Anonymous 17h

If you want them gone quickly, you should be upfront with your wishes so they don’t feel neglected at the end. They need to know what’s coming

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

I’m a guy and it’d be a girl getting booted out

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23h

What’s the bare minimum that can be done cause I’m gonna want them gone asap

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Stop having sex until you grow up please

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23h

Why, it’s just a one time hookup

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

They’re still a person

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23h

I just don’t want them staying over for like an hour or more

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

I mean unless you were fucking for hours with intense bdsm scenes that require hours of aftercare for safety that’s fine. But also just go to their house so you can leave whenever you want. Most importantly, looking for the bare minimum of respect you can give someone isn’t really the best indicator of being a good person btw.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23h

I wanted to go to their place but it wasn’t able to happen that way

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23h

If it meant something would be a lasting thing I’d give a little more

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Casual sex partners deserve courtesy and respect too. They’re PEOPLE

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

I’ll give her like 30-45 minutes cause that feels good for all the more it’ll be

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22h

I’m not gonna neglect them but it’s also not gonna be the full pampering experience

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Like I said, that’s what girls want. If you don’t want to give that to them, hire a stripper.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

I don’t wanna spend money, I also don’t wanna give them the wrong idea and have them catch feelings by doing too much

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Then tell them that you’re not looking for anything long term before you do anything so there’s no expectations.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

I will

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

I’ll imply it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

You gotta be explicit bro, they’re not your gf and they gotta know it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

I will when they arrive

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