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Confessions 2w
It always irks me when people say you should never give up on being with someone you love because i feel like acknowledging the damage you’ve done to them and the fact they don’t wanna be around you is the ultimate form of love
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Anonymous 2w

I think that if you keep giving up on people you won’t learn true love. To be loved is to be understood and cutting someone off is more ignoring than understanding. It depends on the situation but people need to learn lessons and they can’t learn without communication

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

If there’s no communication then it’s clear they are giving up on you first. The point of this post is acknowledging they gave up on you and doing the same. But I agree.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I guess, that’s just a sad way to end things because I don’t think that anyone should be “given up on” when there’s a more polite way to handle it especially if it was a meaningful relationship. I think it can be equally bad -doing something negative and giving up on someone without explanation

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I guess where I’m at rn is it feels like this mattered infinitely more to me than it did to them and that they actively don’t like me a lot of the time. So that’s part of why I’m giving up. Also we’ve only known each other like a month at most i shouldn’t be this invested yanno? I feel like they hate me at this point so i’d rather save myself the pain. I guess at the end of the day i truly am being selfish.

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