Anonymous #2 4w

But like to the extent I’m thinking I feel like it’s not 😭 I used to never think this way only have eyes for my partner and now a lot of people are tempting me recently tbh :/

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Anonymous OP 4w

Are they particular people?

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Anonymous #3 4w

Yeah it’s happened twice now once with a long time guy friend so I cut him off because I didn’t want to be disrespectful and now this guy I met going out somewhere

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Anonymous OP 4w

What are these feeling you are experiencing

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Anonymous #3 4w

I just find them attractive and like an thinking about them way too much like in a crush way

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Anonymous OP 4w

Are you still attracted to your partner as much as you have been in the path?

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Anonymous #3 4w

Not as much tbh I feel horrible about it tho idk what to do

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Anonymous OP 4w

Is it a physical thing has your partners appearance changed?

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Anonymous #3 4w

I think it’s more emotional tbh its changed slightly but not in a bad way

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Anonymous OP 4w

Like you don’t feel as emotionally close to him

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Anonymous OP 4w

Because that definitely could be why you’re finding other people attractive because us women like to be emotionally intimate and really close with their partners are you feeling like your emotional needs to be met by these people you found attractive lately

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Anonymous #3 4w

Yeah I will say when these feelings started is when he started not being the best bf. Like he doesn’t compliment, reassure, or comfort me anymore at all.

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Anonymous #3 4w

That would make a lot of sense because tbh he’s not doing anything emotionally for me rn like I’ve had to beg him to say smth nice to me he’s just been mean honestly

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Anonymous OP 4w

That could be it. I would bring this information to him if you wanna fight for the relationship because if you’re being fulfilled and always, there shouldn’t be any reason why other people should spark your interest so I would come to him with your feeling

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Anonymous #3 4w

Okay I’ll talk to him about it! Hopefully he responds well to it he hasn’t really to things recently so I am a bit nervous honestly like he got made fun of me for crying that a family member of mine was in the hospital so I went out that night for a distraction and that’s when I found a guy cute so maybe it’s more of a distraction if anything

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Anonymous OP 4w

Are you saying he got mad at you for crying or he got made fun of for crying?

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Anonymous OP 4w

That’s very wrong for your partner or the person who’s supposed to love you and support you and be there for you to make fun of you for crying about one of your family members being in the hospital that’s messed up

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Anonymous #3 4w

He made fun of me for crying not the other way around. He’s been doing this a lot recently

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Anonymous OP 4w

So after that I feel like I emotionally detached from him and started thinking about other guys

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Anonymous OP 4w

That makes a lot of sense but think about it would you want this man to be the father of your children? I’m not for sure if you even want children, but man who makes fun of you for crying that doesn’t seem like the best person to settle down with.

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Anonymous #3 4w

I’m not sure if I want them either yet maybe someday. He definitely wants them tho. I wouldn’t if he treated my kid that way but he says they would deserve better than I do whatever that means so

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Anonymous OP 4w

Oh yeah oh hell, no girl that ain’t right. I truly believe a husband and wife relationship comes first because you can’t truly give your kids love in the right parent dynamic if you and your husband‘s connection isn’t proper I hope that makes sense like you have to prioritize, you and your partners connection to give your kids the best

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Anonymous OP 4w

You would be the person carrying his children you deserve the best

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