
Maybe if he doesn’t then she’d have to take of him, she’s probably over it and relieved he’s doing it instead of wandering the neighborhood or poking at her. You stay up on that judgmental horse- ask opinions then get bent when everyone doesn’t agree. Maybe stay out of their business
Cheating is defined as anything that crosses the already established or assumed boundaries. If they have discussed it and both decided that it’s fine, then it’s not cheating. Now it’s another thing if your mom felt pressured to say she’s ok with it when she’s not. That does happen a lot unfortunately. But at the end of the day, it’s for them to work out, not you
well that’s important context oof… im not trying to excuse it I was just under the impression that everyone has their own belief about whether porn is cheating and I thought well that’s up to ur mom to decide… I apologize though that seems very serious and is awful of your dad. I now see you’re just trying to be a good daughter.
can i just say this OP, I see where you’re coming from but please don’t tell your mom that she isn’t “enough” for your dad.. it makes it sound like something is wrong with HER and not ur dad. as someone who has been cheated on that would kill me. bc it shifts all the blame onto the victim. Cause the truth is no one and nothing will ever be “enough” for a cheater