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Confessions 14h
Sometimes I feel like I don’t belong at work. I plan all the events and get everyone together but I’ve never invited. I don’t want to intrude I just wish I was invited every once in a while.
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Anonymous 12h

stop planning the events then. they dont like you but they still know you're useful to do the planning for them. stand up and walking the mile for people who wouldnt even go an inch. period

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

stand up and stop walking the mile*

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

I’m going to. One of them asked me today if I knew of any other good places and I said yeah but I’m keeping them for me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

I thought if I went along with it enough times they’d be my friends but no

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

proud of you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

Thank you. It’s hard for me to say no and I always had to be a people pleaser growing up and keep the peace. I’m slowly growing.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

ofc. im also a people pleaser in recovery. i may have less "friends" now, but at least i am being true to myself and have higher quality people around best of luck!

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