
I bet I can tell you exactly what happened. they just wanted to make a post expressing frustration at the state of things, you pulled up telling them what to do about it with a tone like you thought you were coming to their rescue, then they didn’t have the energy to explain to you why your unsolicited advice wasn’t actually helpful for their particular situation when they knew you’d just say something like “ok stay broke I guess” so they deleted the post instead
high likelihood they were physically or cognitively disabled, and/or had family members to care for, and/or were dealing with an addiction, etc etc—circumstances that limit how much money they have And interfere with their ability to do what you would consider “low effort” meal prep. that kind of thing is exhausting to explain because you never know if you can trust a stranger to be compassionate or if they’re just gonna be hostile & dismissive