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Confessions 1d
found out my ex slept with 4 people since we broke up 3 months ago, i’m half crushed half disgusted. any words of wisdom/encouragement?
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Anonymous 1d

my ex slept with 4 people while also sleeping w me 😍😍😍 no words of wisdom other than fuck men and use protection

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Anonymous 1d

Remove her from your social media, block her number, and allow yourself the space to truly process the loss. Confronting your emotions may feel uncomfortable, but healing through honesty is far less costly than prolonging the pain through distraction.

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Anonymous 1d

You just gotta get over it. Some people move on faster than others and they are your ex now so it really isn’t your business what they’re doing

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Anonymous 1d

Mine was 4 in the 2 weeks after we broke up. Atleast they showed you who they truly were. Clearly intimacy means more to you than them, wear the with a badge of honor and work on detaching. I believe in you!

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Anonymous 1d

At least he waited until you were broken up

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Anonymous 17h

She ain’t yours. It was just your turn

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Anonymous 1d

Your first mistake was having feelings at all. Best advice ; mind your own business.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

unfortunately i’m the dude and she did sleep with me recently (i didn’t know about the others) 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

trying my best at the moment

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

It’ll get better. She obviously wasn’t right for you. Don’t worry 🫂

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

thanks big dawg

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 1d

Regardless of how long you were together, it’s easy to become attached to the familiarity of someone’s presence — the routines, the conversations, the comfort of hearing what you wanted to believe. What becomes difficult after a breakup is reconciling those words with the actions that follow, especially when their behavior no longer reflects the love or promises they once expressed.

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 1d

But in time, the emotional weight lessens. You will heal, you will regain clarity, and you will realize this chapter did not define your worth. This too shall pass.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

it's horrible ..... i mean how many different ppl do u need like ew

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

ugh you get it

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Anonymous replying to -> peregrinefalcon 1d

This whole “stop having feelings” bs that people keep pushing is why so many people no longer have empathy or sympathy today. Cut this shit out man

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I wish you the best. Good bye.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 23h

thank you for that, i’m trying to be the more moral person so this is appreciated

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