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By the way this is a call for help, any advice is appreciated
My relationship is basically sexless and I hate it. I tell her I thrive off any intimacy but don’t get it and she gets so distressed that she just can’t get excited.
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Anonymous 16h

When did the change happen? What might have caused it?

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Anonymous 16h

break up. yall want different things. dont waste each other’s time

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

It’s passed my mind: however it wasn’t always like this so it seems that there is a potential it may be resolved I just I don’t know where to start

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

It happened around a year ago, and it also coincided with a bit of weight gain so I wonder if there may be a health issue??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

Your weight gain or hers?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

Hers: I have actually lost weight

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Got it - in that case, I’d try to talk to her about it and see if that might have something to do with it. Obviously use some tact when bringing up the topic, but you know that I’m sure

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5h

oh well then you have to lay out all of your concerns and opinions and keep talking to her to see if yall can compromise or not

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