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Confessions 14h
I hate men but not in the normal way. I hate that the fact that anytime you ask them more than one question they never respond to the other. WHY DO YALL DO THIS PLEASE 😭😭
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Anonymous 13h

In general, men don't have the multifaceted thinking capacity that women do. Biologically/physiologically speaking. They can usually only activate one brain center at a time, and the hemispheres of their brains don't communicate as much as ours do. There are outliers ofc! But yeah this is why they do that 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

This makes so much sense now but god is it so frustrating like brother there are TWO texts answer BOTH of them holy shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

This is lowkey real bc when i do reply to multiple texts i def am going thru them one by one reply haha

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

Like mentally going thru a checklist if that makes sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

Yeah, and that's not your fault! Your brain is just wired that way lol That's also why women can come off as 'irrational' and 'crazy' to men, bc our brain centers can light up all at once to form the same train of thought- the memory, emotion, logic, future consequences, present intensity, and past context, all in one single firing For most men, it's more the memory. Then the logic. Then the present intensity. And so on and so forth, over time.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

It IS very frustrating 😭 after studying and researching our brain differences in college, I got a bit more understanding and now I'm a bit better with guiding Sometimes you genuinely just have to say 'RESPOND TO EVERY QUESTION. A NEW QUESTION DOESN'T ERASE THE OLD QUESTION. AND AN OLD QUESTION DOESN'T ERASE THE NEW QUESTION.' 😭😂 My poor ex would kill himself struggling to respond to every little facet of my texts after I was like 'BRUH'

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