
I’ve met a lot more men who do that to women and that’s coming from a man ladies sometimes to be on some fuck shit but it’s just not to the same level that’s the point yes individuals might be doing a lot but as men can we not say the same like you can’t find a respectable man who doesn’t despise the men who make shit awful for all of us it’s just a fact of life
Like you should be mad about the predisposition given to you as a man just be mad at the right group which is the men who set this shit system up for us all there’s no point in bickering over who gets it worse even tho one does historically get it worse but we live so far from the people who truly reinforced it just be ally and you’re already fighting the system that keeps us all down
Bro same we can even go in the dms and trauma dump bc that shits rough and it’s hard to find someone to talk to about it but I don’t think the other person who you were talking to was trying to diminish that so much as they were pointing out (maybe not in the right place admittedly) it does generally happen more to women
as a man of color who is intelligent and has a nice body, I am sexualized from everybody, men and women. ahem BBC, young buck, stud. the list goes on because of changing beauty standards more men, regardless of if they fit or not, are sexualized more often than not. even young boys at this moment are sexualized influencing them in a negative way. maybe if we stop sexualizing little boys, women and men can freely express themselves
Both are sexualized, but they’re sexualized in different ways. Women are objectified, looked at as submissive and like they should receive any sexual advances. Men are looked at as more dominant, actively sexual and pursuant, and, in far more cases than women, predatory. Is this accurate? Not inherently, but based on one’s upbringing it can be, though that’s a separate issue. The main issue is that women are often looked at as sexual objects regardless of what they actually want, whereas men-
No they will act like whores and actually care about their appearances more if that means they get attention. Like in 2020 tiktok(I think that was the year) when all the girls liked guys in maid dresses as a sure popular thing at the time which lead to SO MANYYY MEN dressing up in maid outfits 😭
Nah both y’all right I will say dudes dressing in maid outfits and in droves was a moment so it’s Okie bc I was funny and iconic like that feels like history but yea I like it when a woman is about work or their passion like that shits so attractive and that’s no hate on the stay at home type of lady it’s just not my type but ima be real I think I’m allotted at least 60 minutes per week on diva mode bc y’all gotta see what I’m getting -_-
i ain’t mad at all, it would make me happy if i could take a backseat and be protected and cared for my safety and the bill, that would lift a lot of stress off me. afterwards i can tell my girl what she doing is giving me the “ick” and make a big deal about it then she gets me wendy’s to cheer me up 😍 yk what roles should be reversed fr