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i hate men who don’t do aftercare, like dude u didn’t even make me finish and can’t even hug me for 2 seconds?
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Anonymous 25w

THANK YOU

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Anonymous 25w

It’s absolutely necessary. It’s the least you can do.

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Anonymous 25w

Should prob communicate more before banging then.

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Anonymous 25w

Not what aftercare means

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Anonymous 25w

Repent and follow Jesus

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Anonymous 25w

Hot take: casual sex/hookup sex shouldn’t have aftercare unless its involving harsh things like CNC; that’s how ppl get attached 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 25w

Briefly though. Not tryna get attached

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 25w

Hotter take: people shouldn't have sex with random people they wouldn't commit to in the first place

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 25w

if you’re not emotionally stable enough to keep yourself from “getting attached” when you don’t want to, you probably shouldn’t be having casual sex.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 25w

no. you should still give aftercare to hookups. there are non-romantic forms of aftercare like offering the person a drink or a wet wipe, maybe a snack if they’re staying overnight.

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Anonymous 25w

i’m specifically talking about catching feelings from giving them aftercare… not the hookup itself.

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Anonymous 25w

i never said they didn’t💀 i’m saying that’s irrelevant because i’m talking about proper aftercare, not whatever OPs definition of it is…

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 25w

Yeah my last FWB we never cuddled but he would always clean me off get me water and walk me back to my car

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Anonymous 25w

“if you’re not emotionally stable enough to keep yourself from ‘getting attached’ ” then they shouldn’t have *casual* sex. that’s honestly very simple. if they’re that worried about it then they shouldn’t put themselves in a situation where it’s a possibility.

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Anonymous 25w

so, you were talking about cuddling. not legitimate after care. you literally said that!

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Anonymous 25w

so did op

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Anonymous 24w

God is always capitalized

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 24w

it’s not that deep🥀

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