Anonymous #2 23h

me*

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Anonymous #1 23h

The difference is mostly like outward appearance tbh. Pothead guys usually have this scraggly unkempt look with long dreads and a certain smell lol. Outwardly I look very basic and put together. I know it seems superficial but i just dont find the "hippie" look attractive

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Anonymous OP 23h

oh youre not wrong about that part lol! but theres a lot of like super well kept dudes who still smoke weed a ton i just think u havent come across any yet but i wish u luck! cause its so fun smoking with someone u love and just geeking with eachother but i totally understand the unkempt look and them asking to smoke as a “date” 😭

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Anonymous #1 23h

Yeah i also live in maine so like my options are suuuuuper limited and most men fit into my description above even if they do or dont smoke weed LMAO

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Anonymous #1 23h

I wanna find someone to smoke with every night and laugh and watch silly movies 😭😭

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Anonymous #2 23h

I think my fear is that someone will date me with the expectation i will ween off eventually but like i cant sleep without it now 😁 i be having abandonment and trust issues

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Anonymous #3 21h

Exactly my point i dont want to be someone who finds that part of me unattractive

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Anonymous OP 21h

this is so real 😭🤭

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Anonymous OP 21h

At the end of the day dude, no one is perfect, there is no perfect match, if I fw you I fw you, that’s not changing, it’s more of a defense mechanism rather than a full on “ew that’s gross”. It’s like pattern recognition if that makes sense + my values for “you do you” in most cases trump my view of it being a red flag. I guess it’s more of a yellow flag not fully red but it’s like “watch out” yk.

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Anonymous #3 21h

Not everyone who smokes weed everyday is batshit crazy but there are batshit crazies who smoke weed everyday if that makes more sense.

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Anonymous #3 21h

Would you say the same about ppl who drink daily too tho

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Anonymous OP 21h

Yes they are honestly worse

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Anonymous #3 21h

Balance is important, too much substances or substance fucks with your head one way or another, it’s ok to have fun but you gotta look out for your mental

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Anonymous #3 21h

Ok valid i might just be more mentally ill than you. It's a part of my routine and im autistic and i just really like to smoke at the end of the day. I've also been in therapy for years and think im pretty chill so i dont see my usage being bad other than the obvious damage to my lungs and memory lmao

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Anonymous OP 21h

Oh I totally get it, I’m super autistic abt my health and good for you for going to therapy, something I hated and could never do. But exactly my point, brain fog is ridiculous, I use to smoke everyday middle school through my freshman year of college, but it’s just something that I realised wasn’t really doing anything to benefit me personally, I just wish I could’ve realized that before I spent all that money. 😭 hope this helped tho!

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