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Confessions 20h
As an independent woman I want an independent man, like yes please have a job and clean up after yourself, take initiative for the things you want in your life as well!! It kills me when men feel intimidated by my work ethic and drive
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Anonymous 12h

Yup. Shocking that it’s not uncommon for grown ass men to not know how to take care of themselves or have any drive in their life

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Anonymous 20h

i was all these things and she left because of the distance. in 10 years she’s gonna see what i’ve built and regret that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

In 10 years she won’t be thinking about you and you definitely shouldn’t be thinking about her after that long. Obviously she wasn’t your person, just move on.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

agreed, if she left because of the “distance” I don’t think she truly cared about him in the first place and I doubt success would change that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

lmao no shes not. in less than 10 months she's going to be already moved on. it sounds like you should get some therapy. seems like apart of you still wants recognition and to be valued by somebody whos no longer in ur life move on and heal bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

disagree. it’s been a year since we’ve broken up and she’s tried to reach out twice by this point. i already blocked her everywhere but that doesn’t stop her from trying to contact my mom through facebook. you don’t know my story. so don’t assume

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

i love the optimism 😍 lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

Build it because you want to see yourself grow, not out of spite.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

i just like the idea of her knowing what she missed out on. proving someone wrong can be a powerful motivator

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19h

right. live for you! doing shit to prove people wrong , or to get the approval of others is sad

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

delusional thoughts give millions of people hope lol❤️ hopefully one day u stop giving af tho and find power from within

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