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I simply do not understand how people meet partners in the wild
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Anonymous 2w

It only ever happens for me at the bar but it never goes anywhere further than a fwb 😭

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Anonymous 2w

Same on campus im just more focused on getting to class and getting tf outta there my matches on apps has been slow recently so ig I’ll hang around more or try talking to some of the gym baddies I’ve been seeing. it just never feels like a good moment to ask yk?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Hmm I’ve met one person at a bar but I don’t think she liked me more than a one night thing :/ I just don’t like bars much I feel very different than everyone else when I go there and I’m too scared to go alone/my friends unintentionally ward off people from approaching me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

But I wouldn’t have sex with someone unless we locked so I don’t think I would fall in a long term FWB thing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I also don’t drink really 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I can’t do dating apps I would be so obsessed and depressed 😭I’m in public a bunch but idk how to like meet people randomly? I have lots of friends and stuff but I can’t smalltalk unless there are clear signs it’s ok

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