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If I’m breaking up with my boyf bc he’s immature, dresses like a 3rd grader, barely give me the bare minimum, and has horrible personal hygiene, what’s the nicest way to tell him that’s why I’m breaking up with him. Pls help me
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Anonymous 12w

I'm always afraid to reject a guy because they might turn violent. I read and hear about it all the time. 😮‍💨 I just avoid connection.

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Anonymous 12w

Be as honest as you can without compromising your safety. If you’re still trying to be friends afterwards I would just offer candid advice so he can improve himself rather than try to spare his feelings in the moment

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Anonymous 12w

Just tell him this

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Anonymous 12w

Just say he’s not a great fit and you’re looking for someone with more maturity

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Anonymous 12w

you don’t fit my needs anymore

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Anonymous 12w

How so 3rd graders dress?

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Anonymous 12w

Ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

That’s so rude and I would never want anyone to breakup with me like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12w

One thing he would never ever do is hit me like he is a genuinely nice and sweet man even when nobody is looking that’s why I care abt his feelings sm he dosent deserve that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I dont think its rude! Especially if its as true as in your case. Dating is all about finding compatibilities and if theyre not there, call it out

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

Like bros 20 wearing tom and Jerry sweatpants with a nirvana t shirt and a band hat with checkers vans like what is the outfit it’s lowkey cringy that you don’t care what you look like in oublic

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

Oh brother

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12w

Oh brother nothing will compromise their safety

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Oh dats weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

Yeah like I’m embarassed to go out with you in public literally

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