Anonymous OP 3w

how big of a bum are we talkin

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Anonymous #1 3w

Make the list here so you get the added validation

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Anonymous #2 3w

eh he’s improved a lot. still have to wake him up for his big boy job every morning tho i wanted to sleep in today god forbid bc it’s Sunday and he conveniently forgot to feed the dog even tho I literally said he was already barking at me. So once he left I had to get up and feed the dog at 6am on a Sunday 😍

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nah i get that, im the only one in my fam who refills my dogs’ stuff without having to be told abt it

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because he knows i don’t like dogs and got this one anyway 😍 and like i said, he is up for work— i did not choose that job. i don’t NEED to be up at 6am on a sunday. i literally have my own place but he begs me to stay here (bc he needs a human alarm clock ig) i don’t need to explain it to you

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Anonymous pleasure.pirate 3w

it just started today lmao another recent one is him starting the gym and having no sex drive (it’s fine ig, but when he wants sex he begs for it). but then once he DID want sex, he randomly just said “come suck my dick” while he was on his game. and then he said the actual sex would come later. like bruh i’ve been waiting for this all week and now you are only ‘letting’ me syd?? i’d rather just play by myself 😭

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Anonymous #1 3w

When i find you, ill make the world a better place…

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Anonymous #8 3w

you don’t want it to be 2 years down the road and you’re still just thinking about it

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Anonymous #8 3w

i’ve been anticipating it and debating myself forever — i don’t have the confidence to rn even tho i’d be better off. would hate to tell my parents they were right tbh

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Anonymous OP 3w

there’s never going to be a “right time” and you need to accept that so you don’t fall into the trap that so many people do. it’s going to be uncomfortable but there’s no other way out

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Anonymous #9 3w

like i just said in the post im seeing how long it’ll get before i DO leave which means im still actively wanting to. yes it can be embarrassing to stay but he saves face to our friends/family. it’ll only be embarrassing when i leave and tell them all the shit i’ve been hiding about how he acts

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Anonymous OP 3w

no offense but i don’t feel bad for u at all😂 u seem like a b!tch and a pu$$y just break up with him already if u hate him sm and do us all a favor so u can stop complaining even though it’s ur fault for still staying😂

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Anonymous #8 3w

i mean yeah i already see myself following my parents’ fate. and escaping them is probably the whole/only reason we’re still together :/ but thank you sm, i really am close to the point where i just hate him which ik is common for women to get to that point before they finally leave

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Anonymous OP 3w

causing urself stress for nothing (btw it’s not trauma if u wanna call it that😂)

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Anonymous #10 3w

who called it trauma? i get my peace elsewhere, i never asked for your sympathy you seem like you’re projecting tho, not sure if someone left you or is just tolerating you but you seem miserable too, pussy and a bitch 🤣🤣

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Anonymous OP 3w

you never asked for sympathy but you posted on a public app asking for validation bragging about ur bf is a bum and can’t do anything himself😂 BREAK UP WITH HIM!!! you look even more stupid saying all this stuff and being with him it’s pathetic and embarrassing.

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Anonymous OP 3w

also i have a very healthy relationship with someone who isn’t a bum thank you🥰🥰🥰 ur just to immature for a relationship if u can’t even break up with someone LOL

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Anonymous OP 3w

also if he got a dog date u said u don’t like dogs he obviously has no respect for you at all😂 can’t even respect your boundaries and he’s gonna continue doing it bc ur a wimp who can’t stand up embarrassing asf

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Anonymous #10 3w

holy stfu

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Anonymous #12 3w

While. just rip it off like a Band-Aid or you’re getting waxed or something like that.

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Anonymous #12 3w

thank you for the grace 🩷 some encouragement always helps

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Anonymous OP 3w

ur mad bc im right😂 like u said no to the dog he got it anyway u don’t like dogs and he can’t even take care of it…. both of u guys are pathetic but ur more embarrassing for staying with someone who has 0 respect for u at all.. and its just going to continue he’s how old and can’t do basic stuff… im trying to help like dont post that u hate ur bf if u dont want ppls opinions who aren’t validating u🤣

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Anonymous OP 3w

like maybe teach him to do stuff on his own if u wanna stay with him like stop staying on sundays to be his alarm clock tell him to feed the dog… like ur enabling him while wanting pitty yeah no

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Anonymous OP 3w

Definitely just leave cause maybe you’ll get the confidence back after LOL idk it isn’t worth it to waste your own time and his if you don’t, if you left a home situation then that’s just the start of another chapter. Don’t put urself in a situation you don’t have to be in, ofc idk everything that’s going on but know even if it hurts, there usually has to be some bad before you feel the good

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Anonymous #10 3w

Woah getting this pressed over a stranger’s life is the actual embarrassing part. She also stated they have their own places it’s HIS dog and HIS choice and HIS responsibility. Sometimes there are deeper stories to being with people than just too pussy to break up. I can tell u are a child just by how u can speak about a relationship you know nothing about lmfao so ur the pathetic one darling

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Anonymous #15 3w

how am i pathetic😂 im just trying to help her and she keeps coming up with lame excuses like staying with someone u hate is just gonna be mentally exhausting and gonna make u hate urself and everything around u which isnt our problem. ITS his dog after she said she doesn’t like dogs got mad he got a dog even though they live in different places😂 anyway she said she has to wake him up and she’s always feeding HIS dog he’s lazy and she needs to stand up and stop babying him it’s embarrassing

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Anonymous #15 3w

what’s a deeper story than staying with someone you hate when you aren’t even moved in together which is a blessing and easier… she just wants attention

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Anonymous OP 3w

Ya that’s hella selfish, never believe a dude who says smd now and I’ll take care of you later. Seems like a lot of red flags, I know it’ll suck to have your parents be right but that’s short term, time for you to be happy

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Anonymous OP 3w

Listen op, it’s gonna suck ass but you’re gonna have to rip the band aid off here

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