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Confessions 17h
as a chubby girl i’m sick of other chubby girls pushing that being chubby makes us less desirable and hot…i love my chubby body and pull hot guys, when you push that narrative it makes us all look bad😭
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Anonymous 16h

i’ve posted this pic on yy before, but for example this is me…what’s not to love

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Anonymous 15h

As a chubby baddie as well, women who try to tear down others are some of the most insecure pieces of shit I’ve ever met; keep shining, keep slaying, and keep being you baddie 🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous 17h

also, i want to note that i’m not ignoring how society is fatphobic and is pushing weight loss meds rn, but there just are a lot of guys that love curves too!

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Anonymous 17h

God I need you

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Anonymous 15h

i wish i could have this mindset 😢 i like girls too and chubby girls r so hot but when it comes to myself i just can’t think the same 💔 esp when ive never been in a relationship before

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Anonymous 12h

girl we’re not pushing that narrative, it’s being pushed ONTO us by society, and just because you don’t experience the same hate that the rest of us do doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist 😭

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Anonymous 17h

It depends. How chubby are we talking

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Anonymous 17h

yes girl 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

My LORD🥵

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

Fire as fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15h

this is so sweet! i think i was more referring to how i see bigger girls questioning if they will be worthy of desire and love etc. and i don’t like that narrative because obviously we are and have been and being bigger can def be sexy and curvy bodies have been the beauty standard at certain points in history etc. + i’ve met and dated so many men where this is their preference i think that pushing the narrative that nobody wants this can be harmful for everyone

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

I truly agree, people’s hate often clouds the fact that others love it. Demonizing a body type was never healthy for any party and people should be allowed to like the body type they’re attracted to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

extra points if you loveee a tummy 🤭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Just make sure to clean/wash thoroughly and use something to reach if needed

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15h

this is also fair and valid 🩷 i just wish it wasn’t a thing that people constantly broadcasted because it reinforces the idea that chubby girls are lesser than etc. when i don’t think that’s true!

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 15h

I’m sure she knows how to wash herself like most adults so your comment is pointless

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

I think you look great! :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 15h

What baddie doesn’t wash herself?

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12h

i think two things can be true at once, like yes the narrative can be pushed by society and i have experienced it too, but there is also power in loving yourself and only surrounding yourself with people that build you up both in friendships and in the dating world

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

i think constantly saying that nobody will love you because you’re chubby reinforces an idea that society loves

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Anonymous replying to -> dawn_puzzlepiece 10h

You ain’t wrong at some point chubbiness just becomes obesity

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Anonymous replying to -> dawn_puzzlepiece 10h

also having a preference is fine, i have preferences too! this post is more about generalizations

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Anonymous 10h

Lmfao I said nothing about bmi, body fat percentage is a better indicator. but come on you can see when someone is very overweight verses just chubby

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