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Confessions 10w

beestboy

 You being my gf absolutely does mean I own you. With great power comes great responsibility but you know what you signed up for when you became MY girl.
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Anonymous 10w

This has got to be rage bait, “I own you,” is the most chud thing I’ve ever heard

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Anonymous 10w

You are so weird bro I literally cannot get over it

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Anonymous 10w

I think it’s mostly your framing that throws me off. If your girlfriends were genuinely into that dynamic and liked you taking the lead, cool, but “they understood the assignment” doesn’t mean you owned them. They were still their own people choosing to participate in that dynamic, just like you were your own person too. Commitment or consensually giving someone authority doesn’t make either person the other’s property. 1/2

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Anonymous 10w

What are you gonna do to her that’s gonna make you feel like you own her

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Every gf I ever had has understood the assignment 🤷🏻 mine is Mine gang. Shit strict over here.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 10w

“We are committed to each other” vs “I own you”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Why is there a vs? We are committed to each other and I own her ? I bet if I was a sub male and was like “um actually Mommy owns me 🤭🤓” you and the rest of yall would all be in support. Sorry dude I just know what it is around here. The women I like and want to date want to be owned and that’s all there is to it 🤷🏻 whatever references or conclusions you’re drawing in your mind about what I mean by that exactly got nothing to do with me lol

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 10w

I feel like those re both weird. Language matters the difference between “commitment” and “ownership” is the difference between trust and control. If you can’t understand that, you’re setting yourself up for a relationship that is based on “what can I get from this person,” rather than, “what can I build with this person.” This kind of thinking is exactly why the divorce rate in this country is so high

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Nothing makes me “feel” like I own her, I just do. In terms of specifics, it’s telling her what to do when I want her to do it and she’s just down. If I say hey wear this or something like this, she does it. If I say reject dudes that try to talk to You at the club whether I’m there or not, she’s on that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

I like ur perspective and I value what you’ve brought to my attention. I don’t agree with you but I understand why you would think like that.

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Anonymous 10w

Aww I liked you too anon before you edited on me 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

There’s a difference between “we chose this dynamic together” and “you became my girlfriend, therefore I’m entitled to this and I own you.” 2/2

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

I wish you the best of luck on your endeavors

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Ngl idk what you’re saying . But ya sure .

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Exactly, authority≠ownership

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 10w

Seems to me like you did, you just didn't wanna "own" up to it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Accountability and integrity doesn’t grow in everyone’s garden

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