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Nothing is worse than planning on being a "good girl" and "saving yourself" just to have the person lie to you and use you as a hookup 😍
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Anonymous 1d

I’m so sorry hun

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Anonymous 1d

if you didn't know him well enough to see that coming you weren't 'saving yourself' babes

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Anonymous 1d

So stop sleeping with him?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

The worst part is that bro has no idea and he thinks hes probably one of the good guys

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

This was a couple months ago ago and he ghosted me...

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

people can completely change when they get what they want btw. stop excusing shitty behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

i'm not excusing anything but if you don't know them well enough to tell they ain't gonna switch up... you don't know them that well. that's just fax

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

Babes he lied to me saying he wanted to be my boyfriend... maybe have some empathy

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

It was my first relationship ever how am i supposed to know secrets theyre keeping in their head especially as an autistic person

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

"saving yourself" but you did it with your first relationship? how long have you known him? and my point is if you can't tell if he's lying, you don't know him. he said he wanted to be your boyfriend so you fucked him is not "saving yourself". i'm not tryna judge or nothing it's fine to hook up with people but there's no way you thought you knew him well enough to be saving yourself if 1- you weren't even in a relationship yet and 2- you can't even tell if he's lying to you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

i'm sorry that happened to you i'm not saying i'm not empathetic but it's RIDICULOUS to say you were trying to save yourself when you slept with a dude that wasn't your boyfriend and you didn't even know him. it sucks he lied to you that's not cool and it hurts I've been there but it's not like you were saving yourself lmao.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13h

Girl you are asuuning a klot about this. He said he was my bf so i had sex with him. How am i supposed to read a persons mind

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13h

I didnt consider him to be lying to me cuz i thought he actually liked me. He bought me flowers, took me on dates and shit. He even said he loved me. How is that my fault

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Circle back to how long have you known him? If someone buying you flowers and taking you on a few dates with a lovebomb works you're just pretty easy.

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