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If you know your friend raped someone genuinely how the hell do you stay friends w them

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Anonymous 1w

Fr I cut my best friend out of my life over that. Just because it’s hard to do doesn’t mean it’s not the right thing to do

Anonymous 1w

i’d say they clearly are okay with it on some level, they either excuse it or they do it themselves or they think it’s not the rapists fault for whatever reason. you can’t stay around something like that unless you’re comfortable enough

Anonymous 1w

Tell your friend he did a bad thing he’s in time out now bad bad boy. Once time out is finished he better have learned his lesson!! No more raping!

Anonymous 1w

I wish… People called me crazy and a whore because he took advantage of my situation and several other girls. And ofc I reacted rather intensely so everyone believed it and it actually crushes my fcking soul to this day… Its been years…

Anonymous 1w

The same you vote for then for president.

Anonymous 1w

Cut them off in a stern but respectful way. “Hey, due to your recent actions that harmed others. I no longer want to include that in my life so to make it better for both of us. Let’s part ways”

Anonymous 1w

i didn't. i learned he raped someone, and i blocked him on everything. haven't heard from him since.

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Anonymous 1w

I know one guy that my friend group has dropped who would bring up his best friend who had inadmissible evidence against him for sexually assaulting a girl and he still says it was all fake and that his friend told him he didn’t do it

Anonymous 5d

Me reading this post 💦🍆

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Anonymous 1w

I agree with this if its factual but sometimes people just be grimey and be on some petty attention seeking shit and it be false statements to the actual victims my heart goes out to yall

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Anonymous 6d

This thread is so ick LMAO so much virtue signaling it makes me want to throw up

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Anonymous 1w

Idk, aside from the fact that it’s just not my business and i don’t really care all that much, forgiveness. One of my best friends in high school had a habit of sexual harassment when drunk

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Anonymous 1w

They didnt do it to me so

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Anonymous

#2 1w

Preach🙏 wish the person that I know who is in this situation could realize that

Anonymous

#4 1w

So you think rape is ok as long as you’re not the victim?

Anonymous

#2 1w

If any human being does it they cannot go unchecked. That shit is never okay

Anonymous

#2 1w

I didnt say that but go off queen

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Anonymous

#4 1w

Then what does your comment mean

Anonymous

#2 1w

It means shut the fuck up

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Anonymous

#4 1w

It means you think rape is excusable

Anonymous 1w

rapists aren’t looking for consent… that’s what rape is. they feel entitled to violate another person regardless of the effects

Anonymous 1w

absolutely

Anonymous 1w

Ketchum all?

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Anonymous

#6 1w

Maybe I’m a worse person but I could not respect anyone who turned out to be a racist or treat them respectfully.

Anonymous

#9 1w

You’re not in a position to forgive that though. The fact that you stayed friends with someone who sexually harassed people and enabled it says a lot about your shittiness as a person.

Anonymous

#10 1w

You’re not in a position to throw stones at anyone, my friend or me based on a comment I made on the internet that’s also secondhand from whoever I heard it from. Why don’t you marinate on that for a minute Karen 🙄😒

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Anonymous

#9 1w

What an insane person, 😒 “you’re not in a position to forgive something” You people are children, literal babies under 20 years old who were in high school several months ago 🥱

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Anonymous 1w

No thank you

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Anonymous

#11 1w

you can usually tell if they’re telling the truth by how they feel about it - their emotional reaction when talking about it. you can’t fake pain like that

Anonymous

#7 1w

Yeah something to take into account u right

Anonymous 1w

Yeah I see my logic is flawed I concede u right.

Anonymous

#9 1w

That makes you almost as bad as the sexual harasser. People got hurt and you stood by and let it continue to happen, that’s a fact not even an opinion. I really hope any women in your life know this about you so they can better judge their safety

Anonymous

#12 1w

I’m blocking a lot of children tonight

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Anonymous

#6 1w

Not saying that you still need to respect the person but end the friendship respectfully so no issues arise as they might take it a bad way.

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Anonymous

#9 1w

you’re calling others “children” while covering your ears and going “lalala I can’t hear you” when told your friend sexually harassed people AND when all the normal people say that’s fucked up. I can’t think of a more childish reaction lmao. block me too 🫶

Anonymous

#13 1w

I’m under no obligation to sit here and have people I’ve never met who don’t know me or my friend or anything about the situation short of what they read from me, tell me about my supposed moral bankruptcy. I wouldn’t assume right off the bat someone you’ve never met & don’t even know the identity of ever sexually harassed anyone. That’s absurd. Even more absurd, I wouldn’t assume the collection of ppl that compose the YY keyboard warrior pitchfork mob in this thread are “normal people”, big mi

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Anonymous

#9 1w

big mistake. You have your request approved and granted

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Anonymous

#9 1w

When you tell people that your friend committed sexual harassment and you let it happen, people tend to call you out on your horrible actions. Please never go near a woman.

Anonymous

#10 1w

Shoving words into other peoples mouths makes it difficult for me to take any of you seriously or regard anything about your opinion worth consideration

Anonymous

#14 1w

Ive cut out so many people who are. I dont care how well I know you. If you did something awful like that you honestly deserve to not be present on earth

Anonymous

#14 1w

I’m sorry you had to go through that☹️

Anonymous

#14 1w

me too girl. it’s sickening. he drugged and raped me and said i wanted it. i could go on but honestly dont want to talk about how fucked up it was. he ruined my life and smiled about it like it was what i wanted - and told other ppl i wanted casual sex then he drugged me again to have them fuck me. gave me an std and blamed it on me. some people are beyond insane and evil.

Anonymous

#7 1w

the worst thing is when they twist the narrative. and people act like i wanted to be with someone who drugged and raped me. that’s the most hurtful. when people won’t listen no matter how many times i say the truth - they believe the rapist - that’s the sickest part

Anonymous

#9 1w

Bitch that’s literally what you said though. Stop backpedaling grimey scumbag

Anonymous

#4 1w

Immature ass response. Had nothing better to say. And I mean how could you? Your original comment was disgusting.

Anonymous

#4 1w

#4 is the kind of person who would rape someone that why they talk like that

Anonymous

#16 1w

Eat a dick loser, you people are literally insane and need help 🙄 Just listen to yourselves. Touch grass or go scream at someone else. I have no obligation to explain anything to you or defend anything just because this many of you are dumb and arrogant enough to believe you’re seeking revenge or justice somehow. Can’t believe I actually have to mute a thread bc this many angry vindictive femcels exist, y’all should be embarassed af, it’s literally disgusting

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Anonymous

immortal.snail 1w

really depends on the scenario. it’s hard bcs whoever’s in the wrong is gonna try to make the victim seem wrong or themselves seem innocent. at that point it’s either proof / evidence which can be rlly hard or even impossible to get or just trusting your gut and deciding what u think is real based on their reactions

Anonymous

#9 6d

you are severely messed up my friend

Anonymous

#2 6d

WAHHHH WAHHHH bunch of virtue signaling babies in this thread HAHAHAHAHAHAHA