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god i fucking hate hook up culture
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Anonymous 4d

same

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Anonymous 4d

i totally lost interest in any of that when i actually started taking care of myself and looking good

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Anonymous 4d

I know, I feel like I gotta pay to have the cuddle session or some shit

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Anonymous 4d

Same

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Anonymous 4d

I was confused for a second because I thought a part of the screen was redacted or sum. That grey box is what I thought was there but in black. Until I actually read the comments lol.

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Anonymous 3d

No same it’s the fucking worst (I still partake unfortunately)

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Anonymous 4d

Ugh literallyyyy

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Anonymous 3d

It sucks when ur having a nice conversation and then turns out they just wanna hook up 😔

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Anonymous 3d

I’m 22 and still a virgin cause I’d rather not have sex just to have it I’d rather develop a relationship first

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Anonymous 4d

Same

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Anonymous 3d

The same people saying this are the same people who actively seek out to hook up

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Anonymous 4d

Hasn’t it always been this way through history?

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Anonymous 4d

it’s a culture now? How do I get in on it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

You’re probably ugly that’s why you haven’t yet

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3d

Same to be honest

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 3d

Ikr like you’ll be flirting and it will be going really well but the moment you don’t wanna get spicy with them they block you or ghost you

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3d

Literallyyyy

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 3d

Like I’m a lover girl and I’m up front about the fact that I don’t do random hookups but some of them think “I can trick her” or “I can push her boundaries” it sucks…I want love not just sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3d

Wild

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 3d

I both agree and don’t…people are complicated…(i personally don’t like hook ups because of personal stuff but ya know people are people)

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3d

This was never a “culture” its just human nature, its never going to chain unless you somehow remove the signals in your brain thats telling you that you wanna fuck this person not have a nice conversation with this person, this statement is getting redundant and obviously tragic.. Idk maybe hook up and see if you develop a relationship.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3d

I feel you girl just hoping I find someone who gets it soon

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 3d

Honestly

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 3d

I was raped…twice…I don’t do hookups because I have a hard time not panicking when in those situations….ive done therapy and I’ve grown but I will never be apart of hook up culture…but good for you for thinking you have it all figured out

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3d

Well it’s different for a lot of people , thats just my view point on it and what I’ve seen in my anecdotal experience.

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