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what do i do if i have a crush on a long distance guy friend that specifically says he doesn’t want anyone catching feelings for him?
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Anonymous 2d

Run you are better than that. You can’t fix him lol

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Anonymous 2d

No

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Anonymous 2d

Well he can’t control that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

it was more so us being honest with each other abt our emotional state and stuff. he said it as a “yeah i’d feel bad if someone caught feelings for me bc im not there right now”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

rn i’m distancing myself from him bc my feelings feel super strong but i don’t wanna do that forever. i’ve never had a bf never done anything with anyone so crushes feel extra idk intense for me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Believe him and pivot with your feelings. He’s telling you he would hurt you(anyone)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

it just feels like i’ll never be chosen and so everytime i talk to him i get this anxious and sick feeling in my stomach

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Oh honey that’s not good on multiple levels sounds like you want him to fill a void over anything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

You will be chosen by the right person at the right time🫶 coming from a girly that also struggles with this feeling

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

thank you so much :(( i’m taking a full stop break from communicating with him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Proud of you! That’s really hard but you can do hard things because you are worth it!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

turns out he lied and has a gf and lied abt his name 😸

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

So many bullets dodged

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

just feel so stupid :///

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Don’t do that honey you are fine

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