
I (M) haven’t had sex in years. I tell myself it’s because I’m damaged from my ex cheating on me (I had a ring for her). My friends say I could have someone if I wanted but I don’t think anyone would want me so I think I am also an incel/volcel. Also I don’t want to fuck someone for fucking’s sake but I have trouble even taking the first steps. I just completely fumbled a girl who walked up to *me* a couple weeks ago because I didn’t believe there was any way she was actually interested.