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Help meeee. My ex broke up w me end of November. Today I FINALLY said we need to do no contact bc he doesn’t deserve my contact. I need to get the idea I need him out of my system and i dont know how. Also the fact he left me and regrets -
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Anonymous 3w

Me and my ex talked for a year after we broke up and it was the worst roller coaster of my entire life. If you’re ready, go on a date it makes you feel better to know that you’re wanted outside of that relationship.

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Anonymous 3w

- just makes it worse

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I did that but it’s still just eh. It’s like not it for me. And that’s why im really trying to stay strong because I don’t want this to be a year long thing if neither of us healing. It’s nice to talk but I just can’t. He literally caused trauma

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

That’s fair then I guess the best thing you can do is what you’ve already done. Stay no contact and let yourself move on. I’d also recommend blocking him so you don’t allow yourself to message him.

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