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Confessions 1d
i don’t get why ppl say this like do yall be dating people you’re not attracted to
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Confessions 1d
Stop basing it on looks
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Anonymous 1d

I think they just mean stop basing it SOLELY on looks. Bc looks can only hold up a relationship for a few weeks to a few months before you're like 'Damn....I can't fucking stand this person' 😭

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Anonymous 1d

I think when you fall in love you become attracted to that person even if you weren’t initially

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Exactly

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

well that don’t make sense as a response to the og post cuz if they’re complaining about bad personalities clearly that’s a factor for them 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

It seems like OPOP's issue is that they ARE only basing it on looks, so once the initial lust rush wears off, they're like 'Huh, why are these men actual evil pieces of shit?' Then OP was like 'Bc you didn't gauge any other factors than appearance upon entry'

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

but they never said they actually date those guys? i read it as “i see a guy i think is attractive but i see he is also an awful person aw what a shame let me look elsewhere”

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

bro if i started dating someone and they said they aren’t attracted to me but they’re hopefully eventually going to be i don’t want that 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Bro look around most ppl are dating ugly mfers

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Ohhh I just interpreted it as every guy they get involved w (bc they find them hot) turn out to be evil hoes upon getting to know them better But rereading it, your interpretation can also be right I lowkey could relate to that 😭 I'm always attracted to the worst people so I just stay single (prolly bc I'm crazy and I used to be the worst too, but I've done a lot of work and healing and now I'm a good noodle)

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