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Genuinely I think it’s weird that we’ve placed so many rules on loving someone. Yes standards are fine but like why are we saying “if he wanted to he would” guys are clueless half of the time you gotta tell him what you want THEN if he wanted to he would
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Anonymous 20h

Okay I totally get the not being able to read minds perspective. I think most women’s perspective is we want someone to try to see us. If we tell you we want something, then he’d do it out of obligation. We want someone to do something because they want to, not because they feel like they have to

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

No totally get that part aswell!! I think it’s so important to feel loved and seen in relationships I just notice when most people say this it’s during a stage when the guy doesn’t know you very well yet so like it’s hard for him to tell what you want yk

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