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what is the correct response when a guy says you’re short? i don’t wanna sound like a pick me😔
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Anonymous 10h

The correct response is to say "Thank you for noticing, I like it when people compliment things they like about me."

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

1. It's honest 2. You can re-use this line for other compliments 3. It's not a pick me line 4. It gives him positive feedback in a way to let him know to keep an eye out and let you know about other things he likes 5. You switch away from actual comment "you're short" and reframe it as you being the decider of what is or is not ok to say about your body

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

Btw. I am a man with 5 little sisters and am writing a book on how to deal with men... nowhere near publishing it, but this is something I have written about already

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