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I've noticed that men tend to respect it the most/respond the best when I just say 'I'm vibing alone rn, I'm not interested in dating or looking for a relationship' instead of saying I have a bf or anything
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Anonymous 2w

It’s probably cause most men are doing the same thing at this point. It’s only the disrespectful guys that still push

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Anonymous 2w

'I'm doing my own thing' etc- they usually even cheer me on, which is crazy to me bc they usually react so terribly with literally any other route of response 😭

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Anonymous 2w

Because we’d rather that then you lie 🤷🏻‍♂️

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Anonymous 2w

I wonder if it might just be looking for connection and not necessarily a relationship women are more approachable than men

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Anonymous 2w

A lot of times guys will think the girl is lying if they say she has a boyfriend (which first of all it doesn’t matter they should respect her boundaries) but saying that removes any doubt about anything else

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Yup! We've surpassed our carrying capacity (8 billion even was our absolute maximum) so it's natural for animals to stop reproducing/lose interest when too overpopulated. Kinda sucks, but we ball!

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