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Confessions 1w
I’m thinking about cheating on my abusive boyfriend. I already have a guy lined up. I just don’t know if I wanna stoop to my boyfriend’s level of being a terrible human. Btw plz don’t say to just leave, I would if I could but I can’t rn.
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Anonymous 1w

do it, but please be careful!

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Anonymous 1w

I’ll do ya. Cheat with me.

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Anonymous 1w

“I can’t rn” is an excuse and it’s sad and unfortunate that you’re willing to keep being abused.

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Anonymous 1w

i would say tho cheating while in this situation could be potentially dangerous no?

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Anonymous 1w

why cant u leave? dms open if u would rather not post it. i left an awful relationship that i thought i was financially trapped in, kicked them out of the apartment and started over. i thank myself daily for doing that, it was literally the best choice i ever made.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

👆a real winning option right there.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

It’s not an excuse. I’ve tried really hard to get away but I just can’t.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

You’re not wrong, it would be. But part of me doesn’t even care about that because he’s already done so many awful things to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

That’s amazing you were able to do that! Unfortunately for me I live with him, the lease is entirely in his name, I live in a very remote rural area so there’s no reserves like a shelter, and I don’t have any friends or family to stay with

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

do you have a car? way you should start secretly saving money asap, as much as you can. honestly i would not cheat on him out of worry that he would find out and retaliate. you also should try to make friends, you will need a support system during and after this situation. it will get better, i promise.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

I don’t have a car anymore, he took it away from me. I’m not allowed to have a job so I can’t save money, I literally collect coins so I have a secret stash of about $150 but that’s it. I don’t know how to make friends tbh. You’re right that cheating could be dangerous, but I’m at a point in life where I just don’t care anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

do you have identification etc? this might be far fetched, but maybe you could take his car to a train or bus station, anonymously tip the police where you left it so he cant report you, and just get a ticket to take you as far as you can afford? you could also bring things with you to sell at a pawn shop. also, if you call a domestic abuse hotline or trafficking hotline they could help

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

Yeah I do have identification. Tbh it’s far fetched but not a bad idea

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