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Confessions 20h
This guy and I have been good friends for a while now. We do get flirty every once in a while but we both know nothing will come from it. I feel like hes starting to distance himself lately.
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Anonymous 20h

Could it be because he’s not interested in being friends anymore? Maybe he’s bored? But like that seems odd cause we’ve had a really good friendship.

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Anonymous 19h

Could also just be dealing with other life things

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Or could it be he’s catching feelings and he knows I won’t feel the same?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

That’s fair but we have always confided in each other about stuff going on in our own lives.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

What's ur gut telling u is the case

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

I don’t know honestly. Like I can’t see any reason for him to not want to be friends. We’ve never gotten in a fight or anything. So him catching feelings feels like the only reasonable option. Unless it’s the opposite and he’s seeing a girl now. But I’d think he would have told me that. We’ve never not told each other like everything.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Everything? 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

I mean yeah. We’ve been super honest with each other from the start. He’s told me about girls before so idk why he wouldn’t now

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

When u say he's becoming distant wym exactly

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

Usually we would snap or text like every day or every other day. Now he just hasn’t responded to my text or even opened my Snapchat from almost a week ago. Our texts and whatnot had been starting to be like every couple days and now it’s been a week.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Idk honestly

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

Yeah, me neither. I guess it is what it is. 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

U could double text tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

Yeah I know but I don’t want to be a burden

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

So real tbh 😭 I'm srry I'm not more help

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

It’s okay it’s all confusing

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