Then that therapist needs to be fired. If you can detach from people with no emotion like it’s nothing that’s terrible
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Anonymous#25w
No, I’m saying I’m transitioning from anxiously attached to secure. I was way too over my head in rejection pain before. Of course I’m not feeling nothing and I didn’t suggest that. However, I think you interpreted it to that extreme
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AnonymousOP5w
Well you seem to be bragging that you can detach from guys
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Anonymous#25w
That’s not a bad thing in this day and age. A lot of girls and people in general are codependent and obsessive even after a relationship so having the ability to detach isn’t always a bad thing. Do you want her to be stuck on them? I’m confused what the problem is tbh
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Anonymous#15w
I’m not talking about being codependent it just seemed like a brag about being able to detach easily. Could’ve misinterpreted
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Anonymous#24w
You’re not open to seeing what we’re saying so this is a closed loop for you. You’re not going to understand and we’re done explaining. You could’ve understood by now.