Confessions on Sidechat | The amount of times I hear the “you’re toooo nice” or “you’re an amazing guy but” or “you have golden retriever energy” or the “you’re a yes man” and you wonder why guys treat you like shit it’s bc when you’re treated right this shit is said.

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Confessions 2w

The amount of times I hear the “you’re toooo nice” or “you’re an amazing guy but” or “you have golden retriever energy” or the “you’re a yes man” and you wonder why guys treat you like shit it’s bc when you’re treated right this shit is said.

Anonymous 2w

Okay nice guy

Anonymous 2w

that’s literally just code for “you’re a nice person and you aren’t ugly, but you aren’t attractive to me and i don’t know how to let you down gently because i feel bad, but i still like the attention you give me”

Anonymous 2w

Ok dude hang on. It is possible to be “too nice” in the sense that you’re too much of a people-pleaser and it’s hard to respect you. It often comes across like you have no self-respect. What you consider “nice” might be coming across as “too much” for others. Maybe tone it back a bit. That obviously doesn’t mean be a jerk; it just means learn to prioritize yourself over others a bit more. Trust me man I was in your position once, believing the exact same things too

Anonymous

#1 2w

if you were actually attractive to them, your personality would be a plus lol. but, they barely see you as human lol

Anonymous

#1 2w

I still feel like guys who are ruder and less inviting have a better chance than guys who are insecure but try to be friendly

Anonymous

#3 2w

they do

Anonymous 2w

Ok well I’m pretty insecure. My mom made sure I never felt good about myself for 18 years of life and I can tell that everyone can see there’s something wrong with me. Makes me feel horrible about myself. I can make girls laugh but the ones I like never seem to like me as more than a friend