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I lost my virginity to a random guy from the club and I was bleeding last night and I had pain even though his dih didn’t go in properly 😖😖😖😖 and now idk how I’m feeling about it
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Anonymous 7w

Do you think he was too aggressive?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

No, so he didn’t know it’s my first time and once I started bleeding I told him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

That’s kind of something important to tell someone

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Ya true but I was drunk and didn’t think much about it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Girl you were sexually assaulted

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Oh but I did consent so idk and he tried again when we woke up even though I had pain so probably ya

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

You can’t consent if you’re drunk.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

If both are under the influence and she didn’t feel coerced then you absolutely can, on the other hand if he was sober this was indeed rape

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

Idk if he was drunk or sober

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

Oh I was almost blackout drunk so idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

No, absolutely not. You cannot give or get consent when someone is under the influence.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

So if me and someone else are drunk and we have sec we both raped each other?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

Idk I know it’s on him and on me for going home with him and I feel immensely terrible and terrified of sec now but I can’t do anything now

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