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Is it unethical to just never tell a girl that I date that I’m bi. Like I’ve never cheated, have only been with another guy like 4 or 5 times, I prefer women to men, and I like dating them more. But my gf just told me she would never date a bi guy.
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Anonymous 18h

She sounds like a bigot tbh

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Anonymous 17h

My take as a bi guy is that you should be honest about it and if a girl doesn’t accept it then clearly you shouldn’t be dating them, because they aren’t accepting you for who you are. A healthy relationship is built on honesty, you shouldn’t hide who you are.

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Anonymous 18h

Nah you should 100% tell her bc why wouldn’t she date a bi guy?? I’m more nervy for the underlying implications of her not being willing to date a bi guy than anything else

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Anonymous 17h

Its not unethical, no, but you should tell her… That’s really awkward

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Anonymous 18h

???? Why not

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Anonymous 17h

You deserve better

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

It unfortunately seems to be a somewhat common sentiment among straight women.

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