Sidechat logo
Download TikTok Instagram X
Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
Confessions icon
Confessions 2w
if u have a guy friend u met before ur bf and every once in awhile u guys go to the bar to get wasted or go party, is it still ok to carry those some traditions throughout the relationship? or should i dial it back?
comment

13
upvote 9 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 2w

If you’re gonna keep partying and shit with that dude you kinda just gotta invite your bf or he’ll naturally get suspicious about it, unless the dude’s gay. If the dude’s gay you should just be good to go lmao

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 2w

Poor bf

upvote 1 downvote
🐝
Anonymous 2w

U can still carry those traditions while communicating to ur bf ur intentions and ideals. I hated when my besties would stop hanging out with me when they got cuffed just to appease their bf, then break up and come back to me to keep hanging out like nothing changed. Both your friends and bf are important, factor in both their feelings appropriately

upvote -1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

he’s not gay though:/ and i would invite my bf but we’re long distance

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 2w

yeah my exes would make me block a lot of my friends. now i have a bf who’s way more chill but i don’t wanna start another argument

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Oh that’s a whole other thing that I’d simply never do because I know I’d be miserable, but also obviously has to have a completely different set of boundaries lmao

upvote 7 downvote
🐝
Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 2w

Arguments only start when boundaries and communication haven’t occurred . U got this , the past is not the present :)

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 2w

sooo true thankya sm. i’ll talk to him abt it bc i rlly wanna wear a cute fit and get drunk w my drinking buddy haha

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

true true. this situation is a little rocky

upvote 0 downvote
🐝
Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Wearing a cute fit just got me triggered lmaoo ngl but I trust ur not being weird or tryna garner attention from other men. But anyways , Bestie , r we alcoholic?

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 2w

we might be. but i’m just a teenage girl so maybe not

upvote 1 downvote
🐝
Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Lmao I’ve met 16 year olds who were alcoholic bruh age don’t matter . That’s ur life tho have fun be safe live large and live loved

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 2w

shoot heck yeah

upvote 1 downvote