
it’s very frustrating and it gets very old very quickly because then it’s like- why the fuck do you even want to fuck me? like even if the girl is the most attractive person on the face of the planet. it is still one of the weirdest things to process. it’s fully a moment of like “why do you care so much about me as a person who you don’t even know.” Being her friend I get it you guys know her differently. but there’s still probably a level for her where she’s like “I wonder if they would still
treat me this way if they didn’t want to sleep with me.” and coming from a girl who had a realization of like “oh men only do nice things for me because they want something from me,” it sucks. like it really really sucked. kind of made me heartless for a while. so yea idk- just be nice to her and treat her like a human being. and I hope out of all of u and ur friends ur the one that she ends up hooking up bc that self awareness is better than what most guys have.