
Saying “it’s not a competition” doesn’t mean everything is equal. it means the point isn’t to compare individual struggles. The reality is that women face systemic barriers that consistently shape their experiences in ways men don’t, and pointing that out isn’t about dismissing anyone else’s hardship. It’s about recognizing that some challenges are built into the structure of society, not just random parts of being human.
Read my post again No one said men don’t struggle. The point was that some struggles are shaped by systems in different ways, especially for women. Pointing that out isn’t making it a competition it’s just being specific instead of brushing everything into one vague “everyone has it hard” answer.