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Confessions 9w
Considering leaving my bf because he never wants to go on dates or do anything except stay in the house, Netflix & chill. But when it comes to his friends he’s always out doing something. I’m over it go date your homeboys then 🙃
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Anonymous 9w

Communicate this

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Anonymous 9w

tell him ! Then if there’s no change leave

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Anonymous 9w

Have you told him you feel like this? He might just assume that since you haven’t said anything then you’re happy with the current arrangement. You want him to put in effort but you also need to put in effort in the form of communicating with him.

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Anonymous 9w

It may be a very big miscommunication. Definitely have a sit down talk with him And how he reacts to it will tell you what you need to know

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Anonymous 9w

Tell him but you definitely have a valid point

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Anonymous 9w

do it

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8w

Yes I have

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

fr. dunno if OP has, but it’s necessary to communicate clearly that this is a necessity and not a kinda-want. dunno the guy’s situation but I consider stay-at-home stuff more intimate even if we’re not doing anything, since it shows I enjoy doing anything with that person

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

oh I scrolled down and I guess they did talk abt it, though sometimes people want to hang out even if they’re low-energy so they’ll stay inside. there could also be a different explanation, but if he’s not willing to be open about it & you consider this a need, then leave him

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