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Considering leaving my bf because he never wants to go on dates or do anything except stay in the house, Netflix & chill. But when it comes to his friends he’s always out doing something. I’m over it go date your homeboys then 🙃
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Anonymous 22h

Do it. He sounds like hot trash.

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Anonymous 22h

Communicate this

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Anonymous 20h

tell him ! Then if there’s no change leave

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Anonymous 20h

Have you told him you feel like this? He might just assume that since you haven’t said anything then you’re happy with the current arrangement. You want him to put in effort but you also need to put in effort in the form of communicating with him.

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Anonymous 19h

It may be a very big miscommunication. Definitely have a sit down talk with him And how he reacts to it will tell you what you need to know

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Anonymous 19h

if you’ve communicated it and he hasn’t changed anything, leave him

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Anonymous 20h

Yeah you will be happier alone or with someone else

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Anonymous 20h

Tell him but you definitely have a valid point

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Anonymous 15h

do it

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Anonymous 21h

Communicating this to him and being honest with him might help him see what you mean and change his ways…or you can bitch and moan about it online like a passive aggressive twat. Up to you really.

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Anonymous replying to -> beneaththesurface1999 16h

who pissed in your cereal broklahoma 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 16h

Sorry - dealing with a person like OP in real life and it’s triggering.

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Anonymous replying to -> beneaththesurface1999 12h

Well stop projecting because I’ve communicated to him many times that I wanna do other things & not always stay in the house. Yet he’s always tired when I suggest things

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Anonymous replying to -> beneaththesurface1999 12h

I feel bad for your partner

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12h

Yes I have

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8h

fr. dunno if OP has, but it’s necessary to communicate clearly that this is a necessity and not a kinda-want. dunno the guy’s situation but I consider stay-at-home stuff more intimate even if we’re not doing anything, since it shows I enjoy doing anything with that person

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8h

oh I scrolled down and I guess they did talk abt it, though sometimes people want to hang out even if they’re low-energy so they’ll stay inside. there could also be a different explanation, but if he’s not willing to be open about it & you consider this a need, then leave him

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