Sidechat logo
Download TikTok Instagram X
Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
Confessions icon
Confessions 20h
i don’t want kids but i want to want them. i think it can be such a beautiful experience but idk how to stop thinking about the negatives that come with it. my sister just had a baby and she loves her so much but her life is already so different
comment

5
upvote 10 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 20h

don’t have kids. youll be happier.

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 20h

I have this exact same thinking process I want one so badly. But then I feel selfish to think of how bad the world is and I always wonder if I could even bring one into the world with how expensive stuff is…atp is it even worth it?

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

yeah that too :/ plus now that women are actually talking about what pregnancy/motherhood is like it all sounds so miserable. why would i put myself through that??

upvote 4 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

yeah realistically i think im kinda leaning towards this. the thought of having a child is beautiful but the reality doesnt measure up tbh

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

if we didn’t live in an individualist, capitalist society that didn’t hate and punish parents and was actually addressing the climate crisis i would probably have a different opinion. it was very sad to realize the reality bc i always envisioned being a mom. it shouldn’t be this hard and it’s not meant to be 😢

upvote 1 downvote